11. Fake it 'til you make it. Confidence is more important than knowledge.
一直装到成真。自信远比知识重要。
Don't be intimidated by anyone, everyone is playing a role and wearing a mask.
不要畏惧任何人。每一个人都只是带着面具在演戏。
12. If you pretend to be something for long enough, you will eventually become it.
如果你装的时间够长，最终那就是真正的你了。
13. Not to be creepy, but if you want to stare at someone unashamedly, look directly past them and wait for them to try and meet your eyes.
不要看起来很吓人，但是，如果你想要厚颜无耻地盯着某人，在经过他们身旁时，直视他们。等着他们尝试与你对视。
When they fail to do that, they'll look around (usually nervously for a second). They won't look at you again for some time.
如果他们没有与你对视上，他们就会往别处看（通常会紧张一秒）。过了一段时间，他们就不会再看着你了。
14. Build a network.
建立起交际网。
Become people's information source, and let them be yours. A former coworker might have gotten a new position at that company where you've always wanted to work. Go to them for a beer, and ask about the company. It's all about connections and information.
做别人的信息源，也让别人成为你的信息源。以前的同事可能在你心仪已久的公司里找到了新工作。和他们一起喝一杯，然后询问那个公司的情况。一切都是关于联系和信息。
15. If you are angry at the person in front of you who's driving like a grandmother ...
如果你对前面开车慢得像老太婆的人很生气……
Pretend it is your grandmother — it will significantly reduce your road rage.
就当那个人是个老太婆吧——这能大大减轻你的路怒症。
16. Stand up straight.
站直。
No slouching, hands out of pockets, and head held up high. It's not just a cliche — you literally feel better and people around you feel more confident in you.
不要没精打采的，把手从裤兜里掏出来，把头抬高。这不仅是陈词滥调——你真的会觉得更好，你身边的人也会对你有更多的信心。
17. Avoid saying "I think" and "I believe" unless absolutely necessary.
除了非说不可时，避免说“我觉得”和“我相信”。
These are phrases that do not evoke confidence, and will literally do you no good.
这些短语不能激发自信，对你不会有任何实质的益处。
18. When feeling anxious, clean up your home or work space.
觉得焦虑的时候，整理一下你的房子或者工作区域。
You will feel happier and more accomplished than before.
你会比以前感觉更加快乐和有成就感。
19. Always buy the first pitcher or round of drinks.
永远买第一壶或者第一桶饮料。
You'd be surprised how long you can drink on the phrase "I bought the first one."
你能边喝边说：“我是第一个买的。” 你能说这句话的时间会长到让自己惊奇。
20. Going into an interview ... be interested in your interviewers.
去面试的时候……对你的面试官感兴趣。
If you focus on learning about them, you seem more interesting and dynamic. (Again, people love to talk about themselves.)
如果你重点放在了解他们，你会显得自己更加有趣和有精力。（再说一次，人们喜欢谈论自己。）
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