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本帖最后由 wilson 于 2013-3-9 14:20 编辑
The restless heart
When I was a child, how pure my mind was ! when I was getting grown, somehow, the mind began to become confused, because I started thinking about something-why my parents divorced; why my mother would leave me alone; why I became introverted…something till now I haven’t got that answer for yet. It might be childhood memory, grown enviroment to make me think all round . If you think teacher in school is your leader, then I would say life is another one inyour whole life, involved people you touch; everything you do, every single word you say…all these make you restless. In china, to become a monk or nun would make you peaceful, so how many people really go there on earth?! Depth ofheart, still restless-you never escape from everything. 34 years old, married, family, by rights, I should be slow down,keep a good job for family life support, stay at one place for enjoying current life…I have been telling myself. But when I am thinking, something in my heart always takes me to another paradise, career paradise in my mind. Seems I neverstop, in past 6 years, I changed two jobs, every time when I completely conquer new job, restless mind of career pushes me thinking about taking another highernatch. I admit before there was a plan that via working in different industries, collect kinds of work experiences for my career programming, but at that time, I did not give me deadline , I even did not know how far away I shouldrun, then catch so-called career paradise, in these years, I have been running, this gives me work experences and communication skills but none… am I pitiful? Families complain me as an adult kid. Friends, workmates around me envy that I have a good job, I do notknow how to define good job in front of them, there is a chinese saying that sight outside is better then inside forever, so what can I say ? I know manypeople are better than me, they are able to drive to office; order underlingsto run errands; high wages…they all are my example of career, I don’t want tobe a company owner. I am always telling myself, one day, I will be there. Thatis it, because you have a target, every time when go over a peak, lookingstraight at another higher one, the restless mind then says hello to you, sheis smiling to you, cajoling you to close continuously. My elders told me, ifyou would like to achieve, you don’t have to be a traveler for your career,contribute completely at one place if somebody is impressive to you . So why Iam still running ? Is only there no talent scout ? And am I a talnet of them?...this kind of mind appear one by one…restless mind is saying hi to you… Anyway, no matter how many targets you have, whatever you want toget; whoever you would like to be, ask honestly youself, are you reallyqualified enough? If yes, just do it ! To go with restless mind needs yourstrong basics on career programming- rich work experiences, prefessional knowledge,good communication skills-key point is to study something in order to apply it.When you feel that you should be slow down , strengthen what you have. Do youreally think you have made a decision of stay? I say no, that is you are getting ready for next traveling-RESTLESS MIND says to you again. Every time you go with restless mind, you have to pick up the table, so you need the strong belief to support , or you will be hurted . I experienced when I resigned in family trouble, son was several month-old, wife supported the whole family with slighat salary, and I did not think about thistoo much, I thought I was good to take a higher natch, as a result that I even took 3 months to get a normal job, because wife was difficult to support anymore. I was not happy in that job, restless mind was always laughing at me-hey,man, what about taste? However it was not prrety willing to stay there, but Ihave to surrender. Every married man have to bring home the bacon… I think nobody wants to live with the muddle along without any aim ,restless heart is not only friend of career, but also foe if you can notcontrol . restless does not ask you to be arrogant , make a friend with her,let her take your breath away. Hold your horse, if you are planing forjob-hopping: - the young you are, just go with restless heart to collect what youwant on career programming - married you have been, hold your horse, think about carefully… - everything of life you are ready, go based on your ability… ---ForGolden March in employment market |
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