女人该怎样和男人谈钱？

Q168

杨: How is your new boyfriend?
你的新男友怎么样？
丽: Well, he is ok, just sometimes I think he is too careful.
嗯，他不错，只是有些时候我觉得他太认真了。
杨: Do you have some details? Normally careful is a good point.
能不能说具体点呢？通常来说认真是优点。
丽: He calculates everything during our dating, taxi, drinks and even tips.
我们约会时他计算每一分钱， 出租车，饮料甚至小费。
杨: It’s ok, why not?
这不错啊，为什么不呢？
丽: I just doubt maybe he records each bill he pays for me or for us. I think it is God's truth that man pay for woman during dating.
我只是怀疑他会记录每一笔为我或我们一起花掉的钱。我认为约会时男人为女人花钱是天经地义的。

Q168

杨: Actually it‘s not. If you want to keep a long relationship with him, then you must find a proper way to deal with money issues.
事实并不是这样。如果你想跟他保持长久的关系，那么你就必须找到合适的方法来处理钱的问题。
丽: Then what shall I do?
那么我应该怎么办呢？
杨: I think you shall set up a joint account and get a budget, then put money together.
我认为你们应该建立一个共同帐户，预算一下，然后共同存点钱。
丽: Well, I will try, but after marriage I will take care of all his money. His is ours and mine is mine.
恩，我会试试看，但是结婚后我会掌管他所有的钱，他的就是我们的，我的还是我的。