要懂得30个人生道理

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1.There comes a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up.  It’s realizing you don’t need certain people and things and the drama they bring.
1.人生中总有些时候你会厌倦追赶他人、追求完美，但这不等于自暴自弃。你只不过明白到，有些人、有些事以及他们所带来的东西并不是你想要的。


2.If a person wants to be a part of your life they will make an obvious effort to do so.  Don’t bother reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.
2.如果有人想成为你生活中的一部分，他们的努力，你都会看得到。所以，别总想着在心里腾个位置给那些不想待在你身边的人。

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3.If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down – which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.
3.如果你想飞翔，那就扔掉那些阻碍你腾空的东西。这一点往往是听起来容易，做起来难。


4.Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.
4.去做，即使做错也比什么都不做要强得多。

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5.Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success.  You don’t fail by falling down.  You fail by never getting back up.  Sometimes you just have to forget how you feel, remember what you deserve, and keep pushing forward.
5.每一次成功的背后都是一串串的失败，而每一次失败都更靠近成功。摔倒，并不意味着失败；真正的失败是摔倒后就再也不肯站起来。有时候，你所要做的不过是忘记自己的感受，记住你所应得的，勇往直前。


6.When you get to know people with different ethnic backgrounds, from different cities and countries, who live at various socioeconomic levels, you begin to realize that everyone basically wants the same things.  They want validation, love, happiness, fulfillment and hopes for a better future.  The way they pursue these desires is where things branch off, but the fundamentals are the same.  You can relate to almost everyone everywhere if you look past the superficial facades that divide us.
6.当你认识来自不同民族、城市、国家和社会阶层的人之后，你才明白每个人的需求本质上都是一样的，那就是获得认可、爱情、幸福、满足和对未来的美好希望。尽管他们满足这些需求的方式各不相同，但实质却没有改变。当你透过表面看本质时，你就能把世界各地所有的人都联系到一起。

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7.The more things you own, the more your things own you.  Less truly gives you more freedom.
7.拥有越多，限制越多。越少，自由越多。

8.While you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll probably miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy.  This is as true for friendships as it is for intimate relationships.  Finding a companion or a friend isn’t about trying to transform yourself into the perfect image of what you think they want.  It’s about being exactly who you are and then finding someone who appreciates that.
8.你总是在寻觅最好的那个人，却错过了身边能让你真正快乐的人，尽管他们可能没有那么好。友情、爱情都是如此。寻找伴侣也好、朋友也好，不是要把自己变成他们希望的样子，而是要保持真我，寻找那些能欣赏你的人。

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9.Relationships must be chosen wisely.  It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.  There’s no need to rush.  If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason.
9.择偶要慎重，宁缺毋滥。没有必要着急，该来的总归会来。缘分天注定，在对的时间遇到对的人。


10.Making a thousand friends is not a miracle.  A miracle is making one friend who will stand by your side when thousands are against you.
10.朋友遍天下没什么了不起，真正了不起的是，有那么一个朋友，当别人都弃你而去的时候还对你不离不弃。

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11.Someone will always be better looking. Someone will always be smarter. Someone will always be more charismatic. But they will never be you – with your exact ideas, knowledge and skills.
11.总会有人比你漂亮，总会有人比你聪明，总会有人比你有魅力。这些人都不是你，他们不会拥有你所拥有的思想、知识和技能。


12.Making progress involves risk. Period. You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
12.前进中总会有风险。没什么好多说的。你总不可能脚还踩在一垒上就想跑到二垒吧。

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13.Every morning you are faced with two choices: You can aimlessly stumble through the day not knowing what’s going to happen and simply react to events at a moment’s notice, or you can go through the day directing your own life and making your own decisions and destiny.
13.每天早上你都有两个选择：一是虚度光阴、碌碌无为，不知道一天会发生什么事，只是等到事情迫在眉睫了才勉强应对。或者你可以自己掌控一切，包括你的生活、决定和命运。

14.Everyone makes mistakes. If you can’t forgive others, don’t expect others to forgive you. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you.
14.人非圣贤，孰能无过。你不原谅别人，又怎么能希望别人会原谅你。宽恕就是释放囚犯，这个囚犯不是别人，正是你自己。

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15.It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
15.偶尔崩溃一小下是可以的，你不必总是假装坚强，证明一切都运行正常。不需要去理会别人的想法，想哭就哭，流泪对身体有好处。早点流泪，就能早点再次微笑。


16.We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset. A lot of heartache can be avoided if you learn to control your emotions.
16.有时候，我们因为一时的失意而做出让我们后悔终身的傻事。只要学会控制自己的情绪，很多让我们心痛的事都是可以避免的。

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17.Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. There are many roads to what’s right. You cannot judge others by your own past. They are living a different life than you. What might be good for one person may not be good for another. What might be bad for one person might change another person’s life for the better. You have to allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.
17.你是对的，别人不一定就是错的。对有很多种不同方式，你不能通过自己的经历来判断别人。每个人的生活都不一样。对这个人是好事，对那个人可能不是。对某个人来说是件坏事，对另一个人而言却是好事。你要允许别人犯错，也要允许别人自己做决定。




18.Nobody is perfect, and nobody deserves to be perfect. Nobody has it easy. You never know what people are going through. Every one of us has issues. So don’t belittle yourself or anyone else. Everybody is fighting their own unique war.
18.人无完人，人无须成完人。大家都过得不容易，你永远不会知道别人都在经历着些什么。每个人都有自己的事情要做。所以，别轻视自己，也别轻视他人。每个人都在打自己的仗。

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19.A smile doesn’t always mean a person is happy. Sometimes it simply means they are strong enough to face their problems.
19.微笑不代表快乐，有时，微笑仅仅说明我们足够强大去面对问题。


20.The happiest people I know keep an open mind to new ideas and ventures, use their leisure time as a means of mental development, and love good music, good books, good pictures, good company and good conversation. And oftentimes they are also the cause of happiness in others – me in particular.
20.我认识的最快乐的人，他们思想开放，勇于接受新事物、新挑战，他们会利用业余时间来提升心智，喜欢悠扬的音乐、智慧的书籍、漂亮的画卷、优秀的伙伴和睿智的谈话。通常，他们也是别人快乐的来源，对我尤其如此。