10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.
乐观人群善于掌控自己的人生,他们不会责怪他人,也不会做生活的受害者。
Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.
乐观人群会向有能力而且可靠的人寻求帮助和支持。他们很明确自己的基本人权,而且非常维护自己的尊严,因此绝不会扮演受害者的角色。乐观人群有着积极的心态,绝不会心存怨恨。宽容有助于乐观人群抛弃愁苦,使他们的生活更美好。